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“And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.”

1 Corinthians 13:13

The greatest worldly happiness that can be experienced by humans is the combination of marriage that binds two hearts that love each other as one.

Monday, December 23rd 2024

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Marselo Hamonangan
Sitorus, S.T., M.Sc

The third child out of five siblings
Antonius Sitorus & Evi Sianipar

Maria Natassija Sariati
br. Panggabean, S.T.

The first child out of three siblings
Alm. Ir. Patar Panggabean
& Almh. Dra. Natalina Pasaribu

Wedding Events

“For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh."
Ephesians 5:31

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OUR

LOVE STORY

The First Encounter:
Student Exchange, u, and period.

Just like every relationship that starts with an encounter, Marselo and Natassija also started with an unpredictable one. They were introduced to one another in May 2018 by a lecturer from their undergraduate university. Marselo who had just gotten back from the USA from a student exchange, was introduced to Natassija, the junior from neighbouring faculty. Yes, they took different majors and were from two different faculties. Long story short, the lecturer wanted Marselo to share his exchange experiences and assist Natassija in applying to the programme as well. Ecstatic by the opportunity to study abroad, Natassija eagerly connected to Marselo through Instagram, in hope he’d be as delighted to help her. I feel quite giddy inside as I write this down, it feels as if I’m reliving it. Haha. Understanding that she was the one in need, Natassija messaged Marselo first through Instagram’s direct message, asking several questions about the programme and how to prepare a strong application. They texted back and forth about the programme, but Natassija felt slightly turned off by how Marselo type which at that time he used “u” to refer “you” and closing the message with a period as if the texts were an essay, a complete opposite with how Natassija usually texted. At that time, it seemed a little annoying to Natassija who always used emojis here and there. Please don’t ask me why, I’m only a writer in this story. And so, Kind Readers, that were how their first encounters went. They didn’t talk to each other the whole semester break, went about their days without each other in it.

Relationship development:
I think I like this guy.

New semesters have always been filled with exchanged stories and laughter. So was the first week of Marselo’s 7th and Natassija’s 3rd semester. It was one of the early days after the semester break that Marselo and Natassija talked again to each other. She was heading back to her dorm with her classmates and crossed paths with Marselo at the campus hall. He came closer and asked her about the student exchange application progress. This coincidental encounter happened more than once, which was quite weird because they never crossed paths this much before and at that period they ran into each other almost every day, and they talked to each other at every single encounter. Marselo and Natassija grew closer on October 13th 2018, the day when the Radio Station Natassija part-time at was holding an event at the multipurpose building near the off-campus dormitories. As part of the job to promote the launching ceremony through her social media, Natassija posted numerous Instagram Story about the fun out of the event. At the end of the event, Marselo was trying to talk to Natassija, to congratulate her for the launch of her Radio Programme – Pick of the Week. Due to the hecticness, they had have only gotten to said hi to each other because Natassija had to take photos with her Radio Station mates and dinner with the managers later. After the endless agendas, that night thankfully came to an end. While Natassija was scrolling through her photo gallery from the event earlier that night, a notification popped up, @marselositorus: “Yo, so what’s the pick of the week?”.

From coincidental encounters to appointed meetings after class, these two grew closer each passing day. Not a day passed without each other’s presence in it, be it a simple “Have a nice day!” or “How was your day? Hope it was great” texts. Weekends were also filled with studying together at the library, going to church service together, and having dinner at the town center after Natassija was done with her part-time job at the radio. It had become a routine, and each other’s presence became a constant variable in each other’s day. Until December 2nd 2018, Natassija had her first migraine attack while she was broadcasting on the radio station. Being the one who constantly she texted, Natassija asked Marselo to take her to the campus clinic. She didn’t have to ask him twice for him to come and took her to the clinic. A little did they know, the campus clinic was closed every Sunday. Hence, he had to take her to the hospital in the town center. In brief, Marselo took Natassija to the hospital in the town center, and due to the unbearable headache, she vomited in front of him near the gate to the hospital. Talk about one of the most embarrassing moments in her life. Out of embarrassment, she tried to gather herself and walked steadily to the hospital’s ER front door. Gently, he put his one arm around her shoulder and another one helping her to walk steadily. They got into the ER, and Natassija was questioned briefly by the doctors, while Marselo did the administration. Shortly after that, Marselo was coming to the ER chamber Natassija was laying in and told her that he had somehow informed her Mum about her migraine and stomach acid reflux condition and had assured her Mum that she was alright and did not need to come over. At that moment Natassija did not know, was it the 4 PM sunlight that creeped behind his figure while looking down at her or the faint banging in the right part of her head that made her think about it, but all she knew was there was this realization creeped in, “…I think I like this guy”.

The Relationship:
…Be my girlfriend and more.

The week after Natassija’s migraine attack occurred, Marselo tried to ensure her to not had any chocolate or caffeine intake, as those kinds of foods would have worsened her migraine. Natassija realized that he had been treating her very sweetly that made the butterfly in her belly have grown more anarchist than ever. She had always believed that if you said something aloud, you were somehow confirming it. By telling her friends about the whole encounters with Marselo, she realized she’d confirmed her tiny crush about him. She still told her closest friends anyway, although they warned her that most guys would have probably done the same to anyone who was ill. Agreed to that statement, she tried to be as neutral as possible in managing her newfound feeling.

Fast forward to the weekend, on December 8th 2018, Marselo and Natassija agreed to hang out after her part-time. He claimed she needed to get some fresh air to prevent her from having another migraine attack. They decided to go to the lakeside, not far away from the town center. They found a swing by the lake, swang while having fried bananas and hot tea, and talked about everything and nothing. Suddenly, it was starting to drizzle, so they decided to head back to the town center to have dinner in a noodle shop. Shortly after they finished eating, they decided to head back to their dorms. Talking the whole car ride back to the campus area, suddenly Marselo grew quiet. Not realizing this at first, Natassija being her talkative self, kept talking anyway. It was near the end of the car ride did he suddenly say aloud to her, “…be my girlfriend”.
Natassija tried to process the sudden demand while getting herself out of the car. When she came into realization about the whole situation, she started to laugh. She kept laughing for a good minute and when her laughter died down, she became serious and told him that it was too soon for them to be in a relationship. However, he kept on convincing her that there would be better being in a real relationship rather than in a committed situationship. After several arguments and rebuttals, Natassija was convinced and told him, “I don’t date for fun, I have become pretty old-fashioned in this kind of thing, so I date to marry”. Realizing he had won the debate, he delivered his closing statement, “I am old-fashioned too. So, shall we try?”.

Over the years of Marselo and Natassija’s relationship, not only their feelings have grown fonder for each other, but also their respect and trust of one another. Several times apart have just taught them about the longing of each other’s presence and supporting one another from afar. These times apart also have made them realized about as though you are building a relationship with another human being, you are still your very own individual who is responsible for your own growth. Being in a relationship with one another has taught them about the importance of upgrading themselves to constantly become better partner for each other. As these two have agreed to embark on a new journey together, please wish them happiness, healthiness, and wealthiness. Yes, especially in this economy. And for you, dear Kind Readers who are still on your quest to find your own person, we really wish you well and remember, don’t be afraid to look around. As for love might spark from a simple encounter, might as well from the tiniest, most unpredictable one.

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