The week after Natassija’s migraine attack occurred, Marselo tried to ensure her to not had any chocolate or caffeine intake, as those kinds of foods would have worsened her migraine. Natassija realized that he had been treating her very sweetly that made the butterfly in her belly have grown more anarchist than ever. She had always believed that if you said something aloud, you were somehow confirming it. By telling her friends about the whole encounters with Marselo, she realized she’d confirmed her tiny crush about him. She still told her closest friends anyway, although they warned her that most guys would have probably done the same to anyone who was ill. Agreed to that statement, she tried to be as neutral as possible in managing her newfound feeling.
Fast forward to the weekend, on December 8th 2018, Marselo and Natassija agreed to hang out after her part-time. He claimed she needed to get some fresh air to prevent her from having another migraine attack. They decided to go to the lakeside, not far away from the town center. They found a swing by the lake, swang while having fried bananas and hot tea, and talked about everything and nothing. Suddenly, it was starting to drizzle, so they decided to head back to the town center to have dinner in a noodle shop. Shortly after they finished eating, they decided to head back to their dorms. Talking the whole car ride back to the campus area, suddenly Marselo grew quiet. Not realizing this at first, Natassija being her talkative self, kept talking anyway. It was near the end of the car ride did he suddenly say aloud to her, “…be my girlfriend”.
Natassija tried to process the sudden demand while getting herself out of the car. When she came into realization about the whole situation, she started to laugh. She kept laughing for a good minute and when her laughter died down, she became serious and told him that it was too soon for them to be in a relationship. However, he kept on convincing her that there would be better being in a real relationship rather than in a committed situationship. After several arguments and rebuttals, Natassija was convinced and told him, “I don’t date for fun, I have become pretty old-fashioned in this kind of thing, so I date to marry”. Realizing he had won the debate, he delivered his closing statement, “I am old-fashioned too. So, shall we try?”.
Over the years of Marselo and Natassija’s relationship, not only their feelings have grown fonder for each other, but also their respect and trust of one another. Several times apart have just taught them about the longing of each other’s presence and supporting one another from afar. These times apart also have made them realized about as though you are building a relationship with another human being, you are still your very own individual who is responsible for your own growth. Being in a relationship with one another has taught them about the importance of upgrading themselves to constantly become better partner for each other. As these two have agreed to embark on a new journey together, please wish them happiness, healthiness, and wealthiness. Yes, especially in this economy. And for you, dear Kind Readers who are still on your quest to find your own person, we really wish you well and remember, don’t be afraid to look around. As for love might spark from a simple encounter, might as well from the tiniest, most unpredictable one.